Amâeil (Melinda) Urban RIHR

"I feel more relaxed and open.  I noticed a change for the better in my relationship with my boyfriend especially - there is some sort of fear that has subsided." (Toronto, via phone)

"I've never worked with anyone who can lead me right to the core of things like you can."

"I can’t fully express how grateful I am to Melinda for her professional guidance, support and emotional healing.  I am still amazed at what great strides we met in such a short period of time and how much my life has changed since our first session.  I was stuck in an unhappy relationship and dealing with issues of emotional eating and low self-worth when a friend recommended I see Melinda.  After each session I felt more confident, and happy, and was amazed at how immediate her guidance and theta healing helped alleviate my anger and create positive changes in my diet and attachment to food.

I just have to share some experiences. Although we didn’t get too deep into my relationship issues in the very first session, Melinda knew I had a lot of hurt and anger and did some theta work on me to help release that. I didn’t really think much of it at the time.  Like most of my sessions with Melinda I ended the session feeling at peace and happy. The next morning while getting ready for work I started thinking of all the hurtful events that happened with my partner—usually this would put me in a deep depressive spiral or I would feel so angry I would want to physically hurt him.  Instead I noticed that I felt a “hot flash” in my heart chakra and then those negative thoughts were gone!  I was quite surprised at the time and stood there wondering what just happened. I felt at peace and a strange mellow calm which lasted the rest of the week.  Let’s just say after working with Melinda, I’m now a total believer in theta healing—I’m not sure what is going on but it works!

When I was happy, stressed or depressed I would eat—usually junk food or takeout. I felt that  food was the only thing that gave me happiness in life.  I would have to eat the whole bag of chips because I wanted to “hide” the evidence, and tomorrow was going to be a “new day”. I could not believe the immediate results from the theta healing and through Melinda’s guidance!  First I noticed that I could have junk food in the house and I wouldn’t eat it all. I could actually have treats in my cupboard and they lasted all week!  This eventually stretched out into several weeks, and then I just didn’t feel that urge or desire to buy that junk food anymore!  I am now also equipped with the tools to handle my emotions when I’m upset or stressed instead of turning to food.  I’m still amazed that I can do that now!!

Each week, through her perceptive guidance and focused attention, Melinda just kept peeling away at the layers and uncovering some unhealthy beliefs I had been carrying around for years. Each week I felt my confidence grow and old belief system crumbling.

Thank you Melinda for all your help. I am so blessed to have met you!"

"I give great thanks to Melinda for the positive changes in my life. The theta healing methods that she used with me are a great part of that.  I feel different and know I am different since releasing old, invalid beliefs. My situations have not changed, but I have. I no longer react in the same old ways to the same degree, or at all!  Life has become easier somehow. Whereas I had been uncomfortable in some situations before, I can now very comfortably allow them to just be. I am able to process them better by witnessing them and feeling my way through them. Then I choose more appropriate ways of dealing with someone or something. In the past year, after taking classes on relaxation and meditation with Melinda, and then healing with various other services she offers, my life has changed only for the better!"

"Throughout my adult life, my knees often caused me severe pain, and I believed this was due to the many years I had played soccer.  A medical doctor had recommended reconstructive surgery on both knees, which entailed a six-month period of traction and intensive rehabilitation per leg.  Only upon working with Melinda did I discover that the severity of the pain was in large part psychosomatic. She astutely helped me identify the metaphor that accounted for the discomfort, and expertly guided me in uncovering the beliefs that were the root cause of the pain.  Her unparalleled assistance provided me the opportunity to reconstruct the psychology of my beliefs instead of the physicality of my knees.  The discomfort now returns only occasionally because of the accumulated physical toll of playing soccer, but the severity of the pain is gone because of the psychological weight that's been lifted away.  Melinda offered me the gift of her insights, and demonstrated the courage of her convictions in using her natural talents in the service of others.  I highly recommend her to anyone who feels discomforted in any way and who wants to improve the level of wellness in their life."

"I knew I needed to find a full-time job but was procrastinating and quite didn't know why. Melinda used theta healing with me in a phone session and helped me to uncover some beliefs that were blocking me and making me afraid to step into my power. We were able to get to the root belief in one session. Now I feel more at peace, lighter, calm, safer.  I have more confidence in my self and I know that nothing bad will happen to me.  This was an incredible experience.  I hear my ego that much more, especially the saboteur, but I work with it.  My awareness has heightened and so has my intuition."

"Every time I have met with Melinda in person or for a phone consultation she has been professional, present, focused, and committed to the work. I recommend her with confidence to anyone who wants change in their life, who is struggling with a decision,  or who wants to hear more clearly the voice of their soul."

"Melinda, thank you for being exactly who you are. You are someone I respect and admire, and I aspire to achieve the calmness and contentment that you project. Thank you for opening your home and your heart to me. Thank you for really listening to me and for knowing when to push and when not to. Thank you for knowing your gifts and abilities and sharing them with me. Thank you for overcoming your own pain and giving back to women that need your strength and wisdom. Thank you for acknowledging me, my story and my pain. Thank you for teaching me to breathe, to connect to myself and to forgive myself. You are a huge part of my new awareness of me and the passion in my heart."

"I had a dream: all of the people were all telling me how amazing and talented I am...I felt their love and support and with that I could feel my power and confidence build, so much so that I didn't doubt myself at all.  I woke up with such a warm, peaceful feeling. That confidence in myself has been growing and deepening all week. I can feel my sparkle come back."

"Melinda is a masterful trail-blazer - she knew all the right questions to ask and areas to explore as she led me through the development of my own vision.  Her intuition and wisdom helped me to clearly define my purpose and her enthusiasm for the work was truly inspiring."