Zita Fekete

If you are confused, embarrassed and angry at the same time... If you wonder what's wrong with you? Your loved one keeps thinking you have to be fixed: you're too sensitive, you'r too ignorant, you're too anything, but not "The Royal Highness"...

Have you ever thought about that it's maybe not you?

Have you ever thought about that your loved one makes you feel like it?

It is possible.

I see wonderful people who come to me first with doubts and embarrassment that they are faulty. They think they are not good enough this or that way - rather more ways.

They are frustrated because the more they invest into their relationship, the least appreciation they get.

When we dig deeper into their personality, we see high level of kindness, generosity, putting other's needs before their own, and the like. Slowly, very slowly the picture of Emotional Manipulation emerges.

Emotional Manipulation is a slow and steady double base communication process in which one partner controls the other one's behavior by inducing guilt, shame or anxiety. In order to avoid those pressing feelings, the latter partner does whatever the first partner wants.

For the reason of maintaining the control, s/he evokes the negative feelings regularly.

Guilt, shame, anxiety; these feelings have tremendous toll in anyone's emotional life, but first and foremost their Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence.

Because of the control of the other, they feel helpless, and hopeless.

But there is help!

There is hope!

Learn about what you can do against it!

From Strings To Wings