Mission Statement:
“My intention is to assist you to have a more effective, productive, and fun experience in your business and personal relationships and teach you techniques that you can use for the rest of your life for continued growth and mastery”
- Do you struggle with any addictions or other issues that are constantly sabotaging your performance? Do you feel constantly overwhelmed and under-appreciated? Is time your most valuable commodity and do you feel a lack of enough of it? Are you comfortable financially but feel empty inside and like there must be more to life? Are you a star in business and feel like a loser in your personal life? Do you endure depression or anxiety and are constantly straining to maintain your position and reputation? Do you feel alone with no one to share your vulnerabilities with in a safe manner? Have you tried talk therapy and/or medications and found that did not really solve anything for you and are you concerned that others might even know that you need some type of help because it may make you appear weak and out of control? Is your physical health suffering because of all the demands on your time?
- I was in the world of investment real estate brokerage and consulting for 25 years and can tell you that I certainly am familiar with many of these feelings. As a result of a divorce and financial disaster in the early 1990s, I was forced to re-evaluate my life and value system and was shocked and pleasantly surprised by what I discovered! First, the shock was that I had been living life totally backwards from the way it really works and that is how I was taught to live and it really made me angry. Secondly, the pleasantness was that I began to learn a totally different way of living which focused on creating my external world by doing inner work instead of doing the outer work and expecting to have inner balance and peace. I became passionate and totally absorbed in learning more about this little known secret and my life got better in every way and my business in real estate became easier, with less hours and more money in the process.
- After spending many thousands of hours and tens of thousand of dollars on my own healing and learning, I was led to a technique in February 2003 that catapulted me into the world of being a practitioner and sharing my wisdom and insights with others so they would not have to go through what I did in order to learn how things really work. I left a very lucrative real estate practice to follow my heart and have never regretted it and my life has gotten better than I could have ever imagined when I was chasing outside things to feel more secure, happy, and productive. It is all an inside job!!
- I have worked with all sorts of people and all sorts of issues over the years that I have been operating as a “change coach” and my favorite client is a successful business person who is either looking to play at a higher level or wants to be happier operating at their current level. These are people who understand the value of having less to no anxiety or stress, removing procrastination, eliminating emotional distresses that drain their energy and cause them to function at a much lower level than they are capable of, erasing addictive tendencies which affect their business and professional life extremely and also their physical health. I am not a therapist or counselor and implore cutting-edge methods that do not spend much time on talking or analyzing your issues and just use laser-focused methods to change the way you think about things and this will change your entire life and world. I can easily teach my clients to do much for themselves so that they are empowered to not need me and I am available whenever they do need a tune-up or hit a situation that they cannot handle on their own.
- I have various programs to address any challenges you have that fall under the umbrella of what I am able to do for you. There is an intake process that involves you filling out a short survey that I review and then schedule a 30 minute free consult to give you some options of how I can best assist you. A lot depends on how much time, money, and energy you are willing to invest in yourself and I will not work with a person who is not willing to do what I deem necessary to achieve the success they want. This is a partnership where I am the guide for a period of time and it is all about you learning through experiences how much control you really have over your life and it is a type of control very different and counter-intuitive to what you might expect.
- I work with some folks in-person who are in my local area and most clients do the work by phone or Skype from the privacy and comfort of their home, office, or wherever they choose to be. Our sessions are totally confidential and no one ever knows you are working with me unless you tell them. Most sessions are 90 minutes and you will be amazed at how much gets done and how quickly the time passes. Some clients have initial concerns about taking any extra time considering their already overwhelming schedule and they soon find that by spending more time on core processes they have more time, energy, and focus for everything else. People are often amazed by finding that what they thought was 10 problems was really only one or two beliefs that were manifesting in 10 apparently different ways and once we correct the beliefs then the problems vanish. There is no insurance and thus no public record of our work and many people like to avoid the impression that there is something wrong with them or they are weak for getting “therapy”. This is not therapy, it is high-level business coaching that allows one to be more productive with less effort and have more fun doing it.
- My Style: My background as a research mathematician, investment real estate broker, and spending the past twenty years studying and using cutting-edge methods to understand human behavior and what makes us do what we do and also learning ways to quickly and effectively change a person’s thinking, which changes everything, has given me a unique way of working with successful professionals. I am able to ask questions which cut to the chase quickly and see patterns and uncover beliefs which create the results in your life. Then we can use proven tools to clear dysfunctional beliefs and re-install healthier beliefs which cause your life to run much better. I don’t need to hear long stories and details about what happened and blah, blah, blah. We don’t need to spend endless hours analyzing and dissecting all the rough spots in your life and rehashing all the gory details. I am not interested in spending years with you and my most intense program lasts for 12 weeks. I am available on a retainer basis as needed for those who want a longer term relationship with me which supports them in going higher and higher once they are out of the pain that we started with. I also want you to learn as much as you can in order to not need me or anyone else much in your continued journey to optimal performance and healthy living.
- How it Works: There is a pattern that I call “The Cycle of Creation” which seems to run our life and we can come into the cycle at any point and get to the foundation of it all which is the BELIEF. Here is how the cycle runs: Beliefs create Thinking which created Feeling which creates Action which creates Result which then reinforces that Belief. If you don’t think that a particular belief serves you well any longer, then I have the means to quickly uninstall one and replace it with one that feels more useful to you. For example, there is a common belief that many people get as a child that “I am not good enough”. So if you are well educated and logically have all the tools to be “successful” and still have this belief running in your subconscious then you will find yourself often sabotaging your life in ways that don’t seem to make logical sense. Emotions always override logic so the secret is to get your emotional body in sync with your logical mind and that is where the power lies. This is just a simple overview and I have many tools to get the job done and show you how to do it for yourself eventually.
- What Clients say they commonly experience with me:
· They feel safe and fully heard
· They feel understood and not judged
· They get fast and effective results
· Physical pains go away, substance cravings quickly are removed with no withdrawal symptoms, emotional distresses are eliminated almost immediately
· They feel happier, more hopeful, and freer
· They learn techniques, concepts and processes that they can use in their daily life forever
· Relationships get better, communications become more honest and clear, and they are able to let of go of people and things that no longer serve their purpose
· They feel free to open up and share things with me that they have never shared with anyone and feel safe to delve into their shadow side knowing that I can go there with them and we will be able to handle whatever comes up
· They get perspectives and insights about how life really works that have never occurred to them and make lots of sense and explain away many questions that they have had about various situations in their life
· They learn how everything is connected to how they think about what happens and the stories they create and feel more in control of their life by having experiences that show them what really creates feelings and how to change the feelings very quickly
· They have the experiences which clearly show them a very different perspective on how life works and become more intuitive and less judgmental and more able to see people and situations as they really are and quit trying to change the world to feel better
· They are able to become more productive with less efforts
· Anxiety and depression become distant memories
· They realize how much emotional distresses impact their life in a way that they never understood because they had become so used to coping and denying what was going on
· They can get free from addictive thinking and behavior in a short period of time without withdrawal or long and drawn out therapy or going to programs or rehab facilities where the results are not so good
· Those who are overweight and have struggled for years to loose it, find that by changing the way they relate to food and by clearing emotional reasons for eating that they just naturally start making better choices and loose weight without effort and it becomes a permanent way of living
· The best thing a client ever told me was that instead of just giving her lots of reasons why she had the problems she had, I could actually show her how to eliminate the problems and without having to analyze and talk about them forever
· People love being able to eliminate problems effectively, quickly, with no negative side effects, and being taught things they can do for themselves going forward not to continue creating problems and what to do when one does get created.
· They like being able to work with me over the phone and from the privacy of wherever they choose to be and the fact that no one even knows that they are working with me. I have never seen or met many of such clients and just know their voice.
· They love not having to talk endlessly about problems and just being able to connect to the feeling and clear it. I have heard from many clients that they hate taking drugs that don’t work and are so glad not to need that any longer.
· I often hear clients say that they never knew therapy could be so much fun and the results so fast and easy