What are real-ationships? They are the way of the future. They are what God intends of us for they carry the premise for us to be in our divinity. They presume we have worked through most of our fears, worries, concerns, and inabilities to be in relationship. They require we free ourselves as much as possible from our egos. They demand we feel and look within our own hearts and that of our beloved. They force us to be all that we can be-no more half-hearted relationships.
Most of us have not had good relationship role models from our upbringing or from society. Many relationships are egocentered based on motives like what can you do for me-financially, materially, and make me look better to the world? They are based on a consciousness of the past but not the future.
Future relationships will allow the integration of the essence of the beloved to be what one loves. This will facilitate the adjustment of other aspects of each person's soul to come into physical embodiment.
This means the hearts of both individuals will truly see the other for who they are in their most divine sense. They will hold the space for each other to become their God Selves in relationship.
At this time in the third dimension it is most challenging for two people to create this type of relationship. Due to the demands of this dimension people still find themselves dealing with the ego's rule that runs relationships and often destroys them at the same time. People are then left shattered and disillusioned. They shut down their hearts and protect themselves from as much future pain as possible.
What do you get-you get a lot of unhappy people. You raise the next generation into thinking this is the way relationships are intended to be.
Confusion and poor role models continue.
Are you ready to see this stop? Are you ready to get real in your relationships? Are you ready to be your true God Self? Are you ready to be honest, open, speak from your heart, and work together in oneness? Are you ready to practice sacred sexuality that puts you into the oneness with Prime Creator? Are you ready to throw away your defenses, to become vulnerable and loved for who you are-who you truly are inside, in your essence? We are currently making the transition from what has not worked in relationships to what will work. Lightworkers are at the forefront of this shift as they work through their final issues, which have kept them, locked in fear and self doubt. They are the trailblazers whose strong intuitive sense tells them there is something much better with relationships than what they have experienced in the third dimension.
Relationships of the future will start with Self. They always have but Self will take more responsibility for its creations than in the sleepy past where projection, blame, and victimization have prevailed. Self will see clearly through the mirrors in life and will choose to find the divinity within each one.
In the future we will all be telepathic. We will have to learn to use these abilities in our relationships. Lack of trust will not be an issue because all will be clear and open. Love will take on a different role because it will be guided from the God Self, the divine, so the separation that has been a large part of relationships will cease. When you find yourself in your divinity you are in oneness. The fears and doubts of the past disappear.
There will be great strength in the bond of two. Many will find themselves with their divine complements, twin flames.
Finding the other half of Self and bringing that into mutual wholeness will be a major gift in the new age of relationships.
Love, harmony, peace and unity will be the common strand that intertwines two people. They will not fall in love for the romantic reasons of the third dimension.
They will fall in love as souls coming back together to share divine love. This love will take them to the far reaches of their souls and their abilities. It will be a catalyst for their life purpose and destiny.
People will have autonomy and sovereignty. Enmeshment will become impossible. People will be seen for who they truly are and will be led to each other.
Relationships will be for spiritual reasons, for sharing, spiritual growth and for mutual life purpose.
Relationships will take on the sacred.
This means they will be the foundation of society. Culture will be created around relationship and common goals.
Community will be based on these relationships.
We have not experienced what relationships are about but we will. As the consciousness of the planet continues to accelerate we will only find satisfaction in relationships that nourish our souls.
These relationships give to each other based on spiritual principles. They are uplifting and joyful. They bring playfulness and sharing. They allow one another to grow into their best Self for each other's highest good. This is what is real. This is the basis of relationships for the New Age of God.
By Valerie Donner, M.B.A.,